to judge or not to judge.

when is it okay to judge?

well maybe i should rephrase that. because regardless of whether it's okay, i do it. you do it. we ALL judge, constantly. but at a certain point, at a bump in the road, we make the decision to stop judging someone and actually get to know them. this can come after 5 seconds of meeting them, or it can be after 5 years of sitting next to them in school. what makes us decide to put the judging microscope (claw, binoculars, telescope....whatever) down and really find out about a person?

so when you call me a junior. i think to myself that maybe you just haven't hitten that bump yet...that you're still judging. as much as it makes me mad, can i really blame you? it's not anyone's fault that we move at different paces of judgmental cycles. maybe you'll never see these people in the same way i do. and that's okay, isn't it?



although it's socially accepted to judge...i think there's a point where it's just plain old fucking immature. i'm not talking about anyone specifically, but honestly. what made you so great that you can judge unrelentlessly? what makes you better than everyone else, that you're the ultimate "judger"?


no way.








on a completely unrelated note...

it hurts me that i've been replaced. i hope it's not who i think it is, because i don't want to see you hurt again the way i hurt you.

ps. take a hint. i'm not over you.